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Why does no one respond on eHarmony?

Online dating messages may not always receive a positive reaction. What exactly does that imply? It means that you will not receive a response to every message you submit to possible dating partners. 

When people don’t receive responses from their matches, many people begin to believe that something is wrong with them and this at times results in depression. Because people start to believe that they will never find anyone who will love them or like to date. I wanted to go over a few of the more common reasons why you aren’t getting responses.

Before we begin, the main reason (the most common) is that your message is not appealing. You’re not likely to get any response if your messages aren’t good or well-crafted. Your messages don’t have to be very inventive, but they should demonstrate that you took the time to read their profile. Before you go any further, keep reading this post to know why you are not getting responses on eHarmony.

Why does no one respond on eHarmony?

There are times when you are getting matches but no texts and if you are texting them they are not replying to you… the reason could be one of these:

  1. Your match is busy

The busier someone is, the more intriguing or successful they are. They frequently have more responsibilities and are involved in more activities that use their time. Don’t get too worked up if they don’t respond. You need to learn to be patient and wait for your match to reply because we are no longer children but adults with a lot of responsibilities. 

  1. Your match is not interested in you

You’re going to have a horrible experience if you go into online dating expecting everybody to be interested in you. Be realistic and prepared to accept that not everyone will be interested in you. A suitable candidate will be found, and that will be all that matters. You can’t expect everyone to text you or respond to you.

  1. Your match has taken a break from eHarmony

From time to time, people take breaks from online dating. This can take a few days, a few weeks, or even a few months. People will leave their profiles up without updating them or indicating that they are taking a break. If they decide to pursue it further, they will notice your message and will almost certainly contact you. If you are still not sure why your match would have taken a break then I was a whole blog written on this, check that out.

  1. You haven’t put the effort in to your profile

If your profile is incomplete, no one will react to you. If your profile is blank or displays a lack of effort, you might as well kill your chances of receiving even a goodbye text. Check out our step-by-step blog on How to Write the Perfect Dating Profile, which includes sample profiles to help you get started and you will even find out how you can slay your eHarmony profile.

  1. Your matches didn’t like you

Now if you have a picture of you uploaded they will surely see you before texting and if they didn’t like your picture, they will not respond to you. Let’s face it, we do the same. If you think you will get a reply if you will remove your photos then you are wrong, you will even miss your odds of receiving any reply. The only solution is to upload a better pose picture in which you seem to be happy; which has a nice vibe.

  1. Your match is not a paid member

There are some limitations to what you can accomplish without a subscription at eHarmony. A personalised message can’t be sent to another user if you’re a free user. It is possible that your match is not a paid member of eHarmony which is why they aren’t responding you.

  1. You are the problem

See, there is always a possibility that you are the problem, if none of the above reasons feels right to you in accordance with your situation then it might be that you are the problem. Make sure you work on yourself instead of blaming yourself and looking down on yourself.

The bottom line

You won’t receive a reply to every message you send. First, make sure you aren’t the source of the problem. Check to see if you’re sending nice messages and if your profile is in good shape.

People may be preoccupied, on vacation, or simply uninterested in you. 

All of these things are normal and aren’t grounds for resentment or self-blame. In addition, some people simply reply late, I am one such person. Send messages to matches and be patient, you’ll find success with the appropriate match.

I hope this was helpful.

About the Author

Sasha Aun
Sasha Aun
Hi, I am Sasha, a professional relationship expert, and a blogger. At Datinghelpguide, I write tips to create an attractive dating profile and guides on managing dating profiles on multiple apps.