100+ deep questions to ask a girl to get to know her better

This ultimate list of 100 deep questions to ask a girl is just for you, no matter if you are shy or the most confident person on the planet! 

When it comes to building chemistry and creating a closer connection with someone, having a few great questions on hand will help you never run out of things to chat about. 

Ask the proper questions to get to know her better! So, without any ado let’s get started.

100+ deep questions to ask a girl to get to know her better

  1. Do you like memes? Which one is your favourit?
  2. Do you like dark jokes or are you a pun lover?
  3. Do you support LGBTQ?
  4. Do you have any friend who is not straight?
  5. Did you ever think of dating a girl?
  6. What is your zodiac sign?
  7. Do you practice mindfulness?
  8. What kind of people are your pick?
  9. How many times have you went on a date with a random person?
  10. Which of the zodiac signs would you never date? Why?
  11. Which TV family has the most resemblance to your own? 
  12. What types of personalities make you feel the most uneasy?
  13. Do you tend to be the one that cares the most or the least?
  14. What do you prefer, open relationship or commitment?
  15. What did you imagine you’d be when you grew up when you were younger?
  16. Who would you choose as a fictitious character (from a book, show, or film) with whom you could marry?
  17. Would you wear the same clothes every day for the rest of your life if someone offered you a million dollars?
  18. Which option would you select if you could be a famous athlete, model, comedian, or serious actor?
  19. What would you do if you had to live somewhere for the rest of your life?
  20. Which insult term would you choose if you could only use one insult word against people for the rest of your life?
  21. Which animal would you choose if you could communicate with any animal on the planet?
  22. Who would you marry if you had to marry a celebrity who was the polar opposite of the gender you’re drawn to?
  23. Showering, brushing your teeth, and washing your clothes are all things that you should do. For the remainder of your life, you can only choose two of the three options. Go.
  24. Would you rather have an endless supply of decent friends or two wonderful, devoted, and unquestionably great friends?
  25. Who would you choose if you could only communicate with one other person for the rest of your life except your significant other?
  26. What would you select if you could achieve any heroic accomplishment in the world and no one would ever know it was you (end world hunger, bring world peace, etc.)?
  27. Would you wear the same clothes every day for the rest of your life if someone offered you a million dollars?
  28. Which option would you select if you could be a famous athlete, model, comedian, or serious actor?
  29. What would you do if you had to live somewhere for the rest of your life?
  30. Which insult term would you choose if you could only use one insult word against people for the rest of your life?
  31. Do you take compliments well? Or do you despise being complimented?
  32. Is your favourite physical or non-physical quality about yourself?
  33. Do you have any grudges? Which one is the most important to you?
  34. Have you ever disobeyed a court order? 
  35. What is one law you’d like to break if you haven’t already?
  36. What’s the most bizarre thing you’ve ever done?
  37. What do you see as cheating in your opinion?
  38. Would you be willing to be unfaithful if you were tempted?
  39. Do you believe you could forgive me if I was disloyal to you and asked for forgiveness?
  40. Do you believe trust can be re-established? Or does it mean that once it’s destroyed, it’s gone for good?
  41. When individuals you care about are upset, how do you console them?
  42. What distinguishes our connection from that of other couples?
  43.  Would you strike up a discussion with an unknown person?
  44.  Do you have a favourite joke?
  45. On your wedding day, what music would you like to hear?
  46. Which memory would you like to be able to forget?
  47. What did it take for you to fall in love with me?
  48. Is it possible for you to spend the rest of your life with just one person?
  49. What is one thing you will never compromise or give up in a relationship?
  50. What do you think the differences between you and me are?
  51. Do you think our differences are a good thing or a bad thing?
  52. What similarities do you see between us?
  53. Do you think our similarities are a good thing or a bad one?
  54. When was the last time you sobbed in a public restroom?
  55. What have you been putting off for an inordinate amount of time?
  56. Who is the one person who never fails to make you smile?
  57. Which book have you reread several times?
  58. What animal would you be if you could be any animal?
  59. What is one show, movie, or book that you are ashamed to confess you like?
  60. What do you imagine your parents would say about you when you were a kid?
  61. Which age or period of your life would you return to if you could go back in time?
  62. What is something you believe in but others do not?
  63. What would you say is one trait that distinguishes you from other people?
  64. What do you believe is missing from your life?
  65.  Are you more of a dog or cat person?
  66. What do you believe is the most effective method for resolving conflicts?
  67. What are your thoughts on faith and spirituality?
  68. What does it mean to you to be a part of a family?
  69. Do you enjoy spending time with children?
  70. Do you wish to start a family of your own?
  71. What’s the most awful fuckboy experience you’ve ever had?
  72. What is one goal you want to achieve by the end of the year?
  73. Who do you believe you should apologise to?
  74. Do you look at your Instagram stories to see whether anyone has seen them? Who?
  75. What is the longest period of time you have gone without drinking since turning 21?
  76. How would you raise your children if you were to have them?
  77. What kind of individuals do you hope your children will grow up to be?
  78. Which of your physical characteristics is your favourite?
  79. Which restaurant in your state do you wish existed?
  80. Do you believe the future will be a better place than it is now? Why?
  81. Do you believe that morality is learnt or innate in humans?
  82. What is the most important aspect of a happy relationship?
  83. What false you tell yourself the most?
  84. What is it that keeps you up at night?
  85. What is the most egregious example of poverty you have witnessed?
  86. What do a lot of parents do to harm their children?
  87. What are the most encouraging remarks you’ve ever heard from your parents?
  88. Who is the most well-known person you’ve ever met in person?
  89. What is the first section you turn to when you read the newspaper (or a magazine)?
  90. Which aspect of your life do you believe has changed the most while you were in high school?
  91. Which year from your childhood would you choose to relive if you could, and why?
  92. What would you do for a living if you had to change your professional path right now to something completely different – and money was not an issue?
  93. Would you want to know exactly what your life would be like ten years from now if you had the chance?
  94. Which of your five senses would you sacrifice if you had to?
  95. What sport would you want to win an Olympic gold medal in if you could?
  96. Which programme would you like to be a writer for if you could be on the writing staff of any TV show in the world, current or past?
  97. Which room would you choose if you were going to live in a good, normal house but one room could be totally wonderful, modern, and beautiful? What’s the difference between a bedroom, a bathroom, a living room, and a kitchen?
  98. Which option would you choose if you had the option of donating a treasure to charity or taking a million for yourself?
  99. Which decision would you change if you could go back in time and change one thing about your life?
  100. Which one of history’s unsolved mysteries would you like to learn the answer to?
  101. What is your favourite aspect about yourself that isn’t physical?
  102. Do you think it’s possible to fall in love at first sight?

Random first question to ask a girl

  1. Would you rather be a queen or a happy spiritual person?

These days spirituality is gaining focus which means people are seeking calmness and enlightenment. According to where you stand, you can come to know if the girl is the right match for you or not.

  1. Which would you want to live in if you had to choose between a big city and a small town for the rest of your life?

Is she content with the basic things in life, or does she yearn for the big city? There is no right or wrong answer, but her reaction reveals a lot about her future aspirations.

  1. What was the most awful date you’ve ever had?

While it’s fun to reminisce about the good old days, it’s also entertaining to relate anecdotes about dating disasters. She’s likely to have some amusing tales to tell about dates that ended in disasters. You’ve probably got a few tales of your own. It’s all part of the tumultuous dating experience.

  1. Would You Prefer To Live In A World Where Social Media Isn’t As Pervasive As It Is Today?

Social networking has become a part and parcel of our lives but there are still some people who are a retro kind and this particular question can reveal it all for you. 

  1. What has been your first impression goal since always?

People rarely reveal their true selves to everyone they meet. You’re not meeting them; you’re meeting their representative, as one comedian put it. So, how does her representation come across? What sort of first impression does she want to make? Is it consistent for everyone, or does it vary depending on who she meets?

  1. What irrational belief did you hold for a long time?

Another question designed to draw individuals closer by allowing them to share humiliating situations. It’s also a good source of amusement. After she responds, try to have one of your own humiliating things ready so she may laugh at your expense as well.

Which one was your favorite question? Let me know in the comments.

About the Author

Sasha Aun
Sasha Aun
Hi, I am Sasha, a professional relationship expert, and a blogger. At Datinghelpguide, I write tips to create an attractive dating profile and guides on managing dating profiles on multiple apps.
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